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Friendship Rant by smallbirdiein TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano -4 points-3 points ago

Are you like 16? If someone doesn't want to talk to you any more, why would you waste any effort worrying about it? Obviously they weren't a positive force in your life and will never be. Don't mourn it

Creepy AM Phone Call - Looking for advice on what to do next. by ladyroxannein TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano -1 points0 points ago

Why on earth would you tell a stranger where you were going to be today?? All you can hope to do is not be alone, and you can make a report to the police in case something happens in the future

I do want honesty, but not all the damn time. Filters, people. by ChiquitaBonitain TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano -3 points-2 points ago

Talking about one's life to your fiancé is never inappropriate. If you don't like him talking about other women, it's your problem, and you need to tell him. Just because he's marrying you don't mean he'll never think of his past or other women again. Deal with it. He's not a mind-reader: if you tell him those topics make you uncomfortable, he'll stop talking to you about them

It's shit like this... by nixamin TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

Yes, and some people don't want to/ can't chat intermittently throughout the day. What is so hard to understand about that???

I never thought I would choose career over love, but now I have, and it feels awful.. by jane_throwawayin relationship_advice

[–]mandano 1 point2 points ago

Most twenty year old love stories don't end in a happy marriage. Plus, what's so great about settling down with the first person you date seriously? Meeting new people and doing new things is just as good or better than being with the same person

I never thought I would choose career over love, but now I have, and it feels awful.. by jane_throwawayin relationship_advice

[–]mandano 1 point2 points ago

No one is irreplaceable. There is no "one". Settling down too early, especially at the expense of great life and career opportunities, usually doesn't end well for a couple anyway. That's why she and her bf split up

I never thought I would choose career over love, but now I have, and it feels awful.. by jane_throwawayin relationship_advice

[–]mandano 1 point2 points ago

I think being 2000 miles away, and having no real plan to live in the same place in the near future is a good way to get depressed, and spend much of your time pining and on Skype instead of having a fun and social life

I never thought I would choose career over love, but now I have, and it feels awful.. by jane_throwawayin relationship_advice

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

Stop wallowing and get busy. Start joining groups and classes and making friends. Do not stay in contact with your ex. If you do not do these things immediately and whole-heartedly, you will get depressed and waste this opportunity

College Liberal by davittNSWin AdviceAnimals

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

Yes, I've never met a liberal who looks anything like that.

It's shit like this... by nixamin TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

I'm saying some people won't check it or reply in the middle of doing something, and that's reasonable. You seem to want that, even if you last comment says otherwise

It's shit like this... by nixamin TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

Some people just don't like to be interrupted, and that's fair

Got between my mother and my girlfriend and lost both battles. I'm utterly lost. by thunderfoxin relationship_advice

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

You can't help who your mom is. Your gf is dating you, not your mom. Convince her she's being silly for dumping you because she doesn't like your mom. She can just avoid your mom

I keep having to tell this to people when they come up to me.. by Mango753in OneY

[–]mandano 1 point2 points ago

No, I think all men can be friends with women and not be their boyfriend. No man is attracted to or wants to date every single woman he ever meets. A man who has no women friends simply does not want women friends, it doesn't mean he can't have women friends

Summer Attire Rage by licoricesnoconein TrollXChromosomes

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

Upper thighs a few inches below the vulva. You must either be pretty skinny, or never wearskirts. Or jeans...most women's pants all die because of holes on the inner upper thigh just below the crotch because of such chaffing.

Summer Attire Rage by licoricesnoconein TrollXChromosomes

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

I wear boxers under skirts during hot weather. Others say that putting some deodorant on your legs will also prevent the chaffing

Salt & Vinegar chips by wstdin fffffffuuuuuuuuuuuu

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

I think it's because the salt and acidity dehydrate your mouth, so your mouth wants you to put something else in it to fix it up. Unfortunately the only thing on hand was more chips

The real story behind the rejected TED talk on inequality. by cptjmshookin politics

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

Yeah, I assumed something like this happened. TED can only pick so many talks. They didn't choose this one. Boo hoo hoo. It's like saying everyone is discriminating against you just because you don't get hired for every job you interview for

It's shit like this... by nixamin TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

True, but some people have lives and can't or don't want to be interrupted multiple times throughout their workdays or other engagements

Girlfriend likes to go to raves with her friends, I don't. She is planning to wear nothing but booty shorts and pasties, and I won't be there and don't approve. How much say should I have in the matter? by DoctorRobert420in relationship_advice

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

You get no say. It's her body and she can show it off at a rave if she wants: you don't own her. She was an exhibitionist before she met you, and she'll be one after she breaks up with you

I guess this is just a story about an a-hole by fizzyizzepopin TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano 0 points1 point ago

contact the website and they'll take the pictures down, if you haven't alrady

Just found out my dad isn't my dad. Need a bit of support. by Erimenesin TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano -3 points-2 points ago

Who cares? The man who raised you is still your dad, even if the sperm came from someone else. Don't be dramatic

What should I do about my toxic friend? by lanniebin TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano 4 points5 points ago

Refuse to drink with her. If you do drink with her, refuse to babysit her tantrums. You aren't obligated to deal with her bullshit, so just stop. Moving in with or travelling with her sounds like a kind of bad idea.

It's shit like this... by nixamin TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano 2 points3 points ago

True, I'm just saying that someone who really likes you doesn't necessarily enjoy texting throughout the day. You said if they don't text, they don't like you, and that's just plain wrong.

UPDATE to: Being slut-shamed by my roommate and feeling pretty upset. Advice? by disillusioned1984in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano -3 points-2 points ago

Why would you apologize to your roomate for fooling around with your ex? It's none of her business who you sleep with. She knew you knew you shouldn't have fooled around with him, so she has no reason to be mad.

Down with the strapless wedding dress by thecheetahin TwoXChromosomes

[–]mandano 2 points3 points ago

I don't like strapless gown for my body shape. I have large enough boobs to need some support, and I have broad shoulders that don't lend themselves to going completely bare

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