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Husband's hygiene is becoming a major problem. by fearofthestinkin relationship_advice

[–]fearofthestink[S] 0 points1 point ago

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But I don't have a problem communicating. You think you are telling the truth, but really you're just making things up. My feelings are very hurt. You have judged me harshly and incorrectly. You are right, I should have told my husband to rinse his dishes. For more serious issues that I know will be a permanent problem if handled incorrectly, my approach to communication is very calculated. It needs to be very effective rather than feeling-based. That is why I made a post in relationships-advice. That is why I have now, with one very loving but effective conversation with my husband, my issue is resolved. If it creeps up again, I will take your advice and be more confrontational. I would like to offer you some advice, too. People on the internet have feelings too, and being super-judgmental serves no purpose.

Husband's hygiene is becoming a major problem. by fearofthestinkin relationship_advice

[–]fearofthestink[S] -15 points-14 points ago

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You are kind of an ass.

Husband's hygiene is becoming a major problem. by fearofthestinkin relationship_advice

[–]fearofthestink[S] 12 points13 points ago

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Picture a quarter-sized dollup. Honestly, I have no fucking idea how they made their way to the side of the bathtub. I am just as fascinated as you, except I'm also terrified to find out the truth. It has been mentioned that this could be some sort of mental problem, so I guess I am going to have to actually ask.

Husband's hygiene is becoming a major problem. by fearofthestinkin relationship_advice

[–]fearofthestink[S] 6 points7 points ago

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I agree that he should be ashamed of his behavior. The reason I want to avoid making him feel that way is because, in my experience, if someone is ashamed, they just shut down, and then where will I be?