My sis asked my to take some glamour shots for her. How'd we do?

Muskwatch · 2012-05-18T21:15:34.538747+00:00

OP is at 900+ karma. Let the masses decide what is worthy. That's what reddit is all about.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

Maybe you should look again at your writings, and question why you are being downvoted so much. You strike me as the type of person who is very self-righteous on a day-to-day basis. Who does not listen to others, who is stubborn, and resorts to name calling as if that makes you look any better.

You got married young and never had the opportunity to grow and develop mature and healthy relationship habits. You've missed out on fifteen years of growth.

I am 33, and have navigated many relationships. You are middle aged and acting like a teenager on the internet. Why are you so emotionally immature? That's what I want to know.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

The fact that every post you have made has been downvoted to oblivion is proof of who the troll is. To everyone but you, apparently.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

You just did it again! You just suggested he's about to break up his family! SO let's tally up your comments so far:

1 - He's about to throw his marriage away

2 - He's not considering his children

3 - He's about to break up his family

In ever post you make , OP is your subject. OP is the wrongdoer. OP has the power. You can so tell you were the one you did the betraying in your own marriage (which you admitted in your own post here), I bet you still regard yourself as the victim in that situation as well.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

You've been in two relationships, dude. No wonder your relationship advice is so immature.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

No. Your turn: How many relationships have you been in over the past 15 years?

houndsounds424 · 1 day

Sure you are! You've accused the OP of:

1 - About to throw away his marriage

2 - Not considering the children

How can you not realize that she has already done these things? The deal is over and the damage is done. What remains is a question of his dignity, and what he chooses to do with it.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

Their children is something she should have taken into consideration before choosing to do what she did. All the burden of considering the children is not on him. You say "he shouldn't be so quick to throw away the marriage."

NEWS FLASH: She already threw away the marriage.

In this other post, you admit that you betrayed your wife in your marriage. You have that bias and that comes across in your attitude.

You insinuate that if he chooses divorce, then that's his fault and his children's misery will be his fault. That was probably your method of defense when you got caught in your own situation so you are recycling it here.

The OP has every justification to divorce. Legally morally, emotionally, and to preserve his own dignity. This is what divorces are for. Stop trying to wrack him with guilt. That's emotional abuse and I feel bad for your wife if you did that with her.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

If this story the OP has described is what you consider "too quick to cut and run", I genuinely fear what the limit of abuse you find tolerable is.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

In your other post on this comment thread you admitted to cheating on your wife, then getting caught. Yeah you "have experience here", but you're speaking from the perspective of the perpetrator, not the one who was cheated on. And that bias pervades every post you have made on this thread.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

I'm getting the feeling that you were cheated on and are still pretty upset about it.

For the record, no I have not. I also don't need to get sucker punched by Chris Brown to have a right to be passionate against spousal abuse. Some of us are very empathetic people naturally.

What I am is very experienced in relationships, and I've learned there are always ethical ways to do things when you have relationship problems. You obviously have been in a dissatisfying marriage for a long time, and know nothing else, so your thinking is very insular. I wonder if you are able to realize that.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

"Why? A marriage and a family are nothing to throw away so lightly."

It's already been thrown away. Numerous times. With cocktails, laughter, and strange men.

"This couple are having problems..."

Classic victim-blaming line. One person committed the crime here, not two. Don't you forget that.

"I applaud them for trying to work it out."

Did you read the comment thread at all? She only fessed up the minimal amount, it took six hours and only after being confronted with irrefutable evidence. She went back to her co-conspirators for a secret meeting and the poor dude is reaching out to anonymous strangers on the internet for help. Nothing is being worked out.

KillBosby · 1 day

Anyone else notice a weird optical illusion which appears to make the blackness "close in" as you move your eyes around the picture? I thought I was blacking out for a second.

Muskwatch · 1 day

The reason people don't post in those obscure subreddits is because nobody goes there. Just tell the OP to get lost, that's what you really mean.

Tmeesseman · 1 day

/tumbleweed

houndsounds424 · 1 day

But nobody thought Rhianna was making women collectively look bad.

Whaaaaaaaa? 1

Whaaaaaaaa? 2

Whaaaaaaaa? 3

And also there was a whole reddit thread from women saying how bad she makes women look. In those exact words.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

Not really. You got your ass handed to you by a pack of girls that conspired together to be unfaithful on a regular basis as a sport.

This was not your typical act of cheating, my friend. This was not a lone, moment of weakness in Paris with a stranger. This a regular, group field day with little or no remorse, that they intend to continue. There is no doubt in my mind she went and huddled together with her co-conspirators and they are drawing up their contingency plans now.

When cheating reaches this level or regularity, organization, and becomes a groupwide thing amongst a pack of friends that have validated it with each other, it's time to pick your balls up off the floor and leave.

EDIT: Sorry but this story really makes me angry for some reason... like the way all those women became irritated when Rihanna got back together with Chris Brown. Sure it's none of my personal business but on a collective male level your making our sex look weak.

fxjkhr40 · 1 day

I totally would, but only on the weekends. I have a job that requires serious brain cell usage at 8am every morning and can't do it on worknights.

houndsounds424 · 1 day

Whenever I read stories like this that ends with "Not sure if divorce is what I want" or "I want to try to work it out" I just facepalm.

bephany · 1 day

Your attempt at the troll girl is the most adorable thing I have ever seen

acmed · 1 day

Nailed It

amin456789 · 3 days

About getting cancer

Protophobic · 5 days

I know.

Protophobic · 5 days

Knowledge is Power

dnicholsonb · 12 days

Agreed. Also, the article begins with the acknowledgement of all the health complications that comes along with high body fat, then just kind of goes off on a tangent and never returns to the issue.

Protophobic

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