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Panda_De_Guerre · 1 day

IT'S FUCKING LUNA LOVEGOOD

mikwow · 13 days

...is it possible for Taiwan's tiny little population to have accrued that many casualties?

Sure, you can be 'technical' about what the country's formal name/flag was at the time, but a majority of deaths were from the Communist side...

dinosaurgogoboots · 2 months

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Merylol · 2 months

Well it only works for one person... lol

throwawayusername1 · 3 months

Going a little against the pattern within this thread, I really think you can find girls who look very young or prepubescent, who aren't. Given the age-range that you're looking for, it's a little difficult, but there are definitely Asian girls (hey I'm Asian, I can speak to this), who are nearly breast-less and are also very petite. Find them!

Age itself isn't really that relevant to you, just a certain type of physical attraction; so look for legal ages, but maintain the same physical aesthetic.

wowfistpump · 3 months

Yes. Wait for the next time you see her in person and tell her personally.

inneedofsomeadvice · 3 months

She's completely spoiled. The only person with any control over your money is you. She can't make you do anything with it that you don't want to do. That's just that.

If she was, I don't know, more deserving of it...you would obviously give her more money. But that doesn't seem to be the case at all.

hubbyofhoarder · 3 months

Move in together. That would seriously help. There is nothing better at forcing busy people to interact with each other than to put them in the same house.

It really doesn't seem to be a problem or affection or care or anything else, just busy-ness. It's either move in together or coordinate more mutual activities; the latter seem unlikely, so go for the former!

completemaze · 3 months

There's a chance that he feels resentful that you two broke-up to begin with. This is evidently only a possibility, but what if he didn't want to break-up to begin with, but is hurt that you agreed to do it to begin with?

If that is the case, then continue to talk to him that it was an accident and a mistake and that you didn't mean it.

If not, then that means that he might have felt differently all this time, but was not communicating it to you properly. Now that you two have separated, he sees no reason to hide it any longer.

In this second scenario, you ought to simply move on. It's hard to make a long distance relationship work out as it is, and if your partner isn't helping you at all, and is putting in no effort, it's a completely useless effort.

Don't put yourself at the mercy of someone else; you're independent and strong and deserve to have someone who returns your affections.

Rexxi · 3 months

Go find her. Talk to her family. Tell her family that the least that you two both deserve is for you guys to have a face-to-face talk. Even if she won't see you, I'm certain that her family can help you set it up.

You need to have a heart-to-heart, face-to-face talk to her about exactly how you are feeling. That's all there is to it. If you can properly communicate to her, then all that's left is for that message to be received. Sadly, you can't control that, but you can make sure that she knows how you feel. Go and give it a shot; if that doesn't work, then you know you've tried your best, and to move on, even if you don't want to.

isrightrelationship · 3 months

I hate to put it, but this girl is clearly very socially retarded. Blame it on what you will, but she needs to see a lot more of the world to change. She needs time, too. Her family clearly didn't help her in any way; I suggest that you either try to show her more of normalcy - hey, watch this movie. Wow, look other people do this too! Etc - and see how she reacts.

Otherwise, to be honest, I've always had this hypothesis at times, she needs to date other people. There's nothing that is better proof that she is the one who's wrong (and should change), than repeated experience.

I really do think that this relationship is 100% shit for you. This is one of those situations where you need to cut your loses. It has nothing to do with physical boundaries as much as the fact that this girl is also emotionally retarded.

waterbottlelamp · 3 months

So, I don't have time to read through the entire thread, but something that absolutely needs to be done is for you to make it clear that you would break up with him if he doesn't make an effort. I realize that some people will say that people don't change; I don't think that's necessarily true. Tell him that something that you really need and want is for him to actually care about you, to show that he has feelings for you. That's really what you're asking - not something ridiculously, lovey dovey, or needlessly romantic - just asking for him to show you something that should already be there.

If he can't even make that effort for you, then well, you should end it right here and now. But, if he makes an effort, then give him a chance...and then re-evaluate. See what happens if he is willing to make an effort. An ultimatum isn't a bad idea if you truly have feelings for him, and, because you two have been together for 3 years.

IsomerSC · 4 months

...I was raging. On the inside, of course.

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