I don't want to be with her, it's been an abusive ride the whole way through, I've made up my mind about that. But when I try to drop the break-up bomb, she threatens to kill herself and makes herself sick to dramatize it. What do I do, reddit? I'm dying to be out of this relationship, I have a life to live.

Edit: So I just called her and told her many of the things mentioned here. I, with my weakness, let her convince me she could fix things and it just ended with her crying hysterically after more threats... reddit, I feel really weak and like a complete douche bag. Despite the fact she's just tugging me around on strings, she put on all this crying that made a weak guy like me feel like shit. But this really, if anything, strengthens my resolve. And tomorrow, when this repeats, like it always does, I think I'm going to take the advice of you guys. That said, keep it coming, if you got any. Thanks, reddit, this is why this is an awesome community.